Terms of use

Who may come in

Membership is by invitation and reserved to adults. There is no open sign-up: you are brought in by someone, or you write and we take the time to talk. Accepting a request is a decision taken by a person, and it can be refused without anything being owed in return.

TO CONFIRM — age verification. French law requires more than a declaration for a service carrying adult content. Until a certified provider is in place, this section is incomplete and the point is deliberately left visible rather than papered over.

What you publish

What you publish stays yours. You grant this service only what it needs to show it to the people you chose: storing it, converting it to a format a browser can read, and displaying it at the level of access you set. Nothing is used for anything else, and nothing is shown beyond that level.

Every photo and every video carries its own level — private, on request, contacts, public. The default is private. A level you granted can be taken back, and taking it back cuts off access from that moment.

What is not allowed

• Anything involving a minor, or anyone whose adulthood is uncertain. This is reported to the authorities, not merely removed.
• Publishing an image of somebody who did not agree to it being published here. That includes an image once shared with you in private.
• Harassment, threats, pressure of any kind.
• Passing yourself off as somebody else.
• Taking away, recording or redistributing what another member showed you. What is shown here stays here.
• Advertising, soliciting, or trading of any sort.

When a rule is broken

Content can be withdrawn, an account suspended, and in serious cases closed. Every decision is written down with its reasons and can be contested by replying to the message announcing it. See reporting content.

Leaving

You can close your account at any time. Your profile and what you published go with it. Messages you sent to other people remain in their conversations, as a letter stays with whoever received it.

Applicable law

The applicable law and the competent court — TO BE FILLED IN